How to Write an Autobiography for Teenagers

As you edge toward adulthood, it's useful to take stock of what you've accomplished, determine where you want to be in the future, and assess the education and skills you'll need to reach those goals.

While autobiographies are typically thought of as books that are written by celebrities or older people, committing your memories to an autobiographical format is a great way to identify what matters to you and to analyze some of the events that have influenced your personality and decision making.

1. Read published autobiographies

Read published autobiographies of individuals you admire or are curious about, to familiarize yourself with the structure and the advantages and limitations of first-person narrative.

2. Determine who your target readers will be

Determine who your target readers will be.

  • If, for example, you're writing your autobiography for people who have never met you, you'll need to incorporate more detail than if only close friends and relatives will read it.

For example, if you write, "Emily and I are always fighting with each other," a friend or relative won't be confused, but a stranger will need some explanation of who Emily is.

3. Decide what your overall theme will be

Decide what your overall theme will be and how it will resonate with your readers.

  • Telling your life story chronologically from birth to age 15, for instance, may be completely riveting to you because you were there but may not interest someone else.

If, instead, you focus on the anxiety of transitioning from middle to high school or the frustration of moving to a new town and school where you didn't know anyone, other people may be more interested.

4. Start with a four-part outline

Start with a four-part outline and title the sections: Past, Present, Future and Random Musings.

  • You can either compose the elements directly on your computer or jot notes on index cards that you can carry around with you.
    • A binder works well, too, because it allows you to move the content around as you think of new topics to add.

The amount of content you're going to allocate to these sections depends on the decision you made in Step 3.

5. Create subsections

Create subsections under Past such as:

  • Birthplace,
  • Parents,
  • Siblings,
  • Grandparents,
  • Ancestors,
  • Childhood,
  • Grade School,
  • Illnesses
  • Favorite Toys

Write down as much as you can remember that you either personally experienced or learned from others about your family and background as you got older (e.g., you are descended from Vikings).

6. Ask your family

Ask your parents, grandparents and family friends to help you fill in some of the blanks about why you lived in a particular neighborhood, what your parents did for a living, how you got along with your siblings or other kids, or your first vacation. Take copious notes or use a tape recorder.

7. Look through family photo albums

Look through family photo albums or scrapbooks for more clues about your background.

  • If you have relatives who like to save everything, you may even be able to find old report cards, refrigerator drawings or blue ribbons for science fair projects.

Analyze how these items and events shaped your childhood identity and are still a part of your personality as a teen.

8. Divide the Present category into subsections

Divide the Present category into subsections:

  • Friends
  • Sports
  • High School
  • Pets
  • Clothes
  • Chores
  • Hobbies
  • Cars
  • and Crushes

Reflect on the people you interact with every day, the favorite snacks you like to eat, the music you enjoy listening to and the classes that you're taking in school.

Even if some entries seem ordinary to you, people from other cultures might find them fascinating if they have never experienced these things themselves.

9. Create subsections for Future

Create subsections for Future that address topics such as:

  • what you plan to do after graduation
  • where you'd like to travel
  • what your ideal job might be
  • whether you envision having children
  • who your mentors are a
  • what family traditions you plan to carry on as an adult.

10. Random Musings

Under Random Musings, identify:

  • anxieties
  • regrets
  • daydreams
  • phobias
  • habits
  • spiritual beliefs

Although not all of these may find a place in your finished product, many of them will jog your memory and lead you to recall more events from your life.

This is where you can also identify things such as:

  • books that have influenced your thinking;
  • qualities that you like or dislike about yourself;
  • favorite possessions;
  • who'd you'd want to portray you in a movie of your life;

Identify what you've observed about:

  • love
  • hatred
  • grief
  • fidelity
  • perseverance

12. Start writing

  • Start writing and try to keep a consistent schedule so that you don't lose your train of thought.
  • Keep backup copies of your work.
  • Resist editing until you have the first draft completed. Otherwise, you could spend too much time trying to come up with the perfect opening sentence.

13. Tips

  • Guided journals such as "The Book of Self-Acquaintance" by Margaret Tiberio can help you formulate in-depth interview questions to ask yourself about fears, anxieties, ambitions and spiritual beliefs.
  • Invite your friends to interview you but not show you the questions in advance.
  • You may want to start by composing some short (200-350 word) autobiographical pieces and seeing if there's a pattern to them that can be incorporated into an autobiographical format.
  • You may even be able to sell these short pieces to magazines.
  • Where practical, include photographs to supplement the text.

14. Avoid

  • Avoid distracting readers from the central story. Distractions lead readers astray such as what is currently happening in the world at time of writing an autobiography.
  • If you feel compelled to mention scientific discoveries, natural disasters or presidential elections, it should be in the context of how it affected you emotionally or changed your point of view.
  • Although it is permissible to omit mention of months or years that were not that memorable, do not backtrack and/or skip around once your momentum is underway.
  • Be honest but not hurtful.